Just let go.
This is one of the mantras that transformed my life in many ways.
Letting go strips enormous weight off your shoulders. It makes you feel relaxed and at ease. It makes you feel happy all the time.
In this article I am going to share with you how letting go can transform your life by achieving a continuous state of happiness and freedom.
The Let-Go – Mindset
Letting go of things is one of the most freeing things you can do.
Surrendering to what is brings a certain peace and happiness into your life.
You start operating from a different paradigm.
By letting go of the old you make way for the new.
It is as if you create a vacuum that needs to be filled. You take part in the natural cycle of life.
If you hold on to things, you are breaking that natural cycle. But if you let go, it is as if the universe automatically fills that void with newer, better, more exciting things.
In this article, I want to share a couple of things that you might need to let go of to move beyond your current state and reach the next level in your evolution.
Let Her Go
Let that girl go that you are orbiting for so long, even though she just sees you as a
brother or friend emotional tampon
Delete her number and move on. Stop thinking about her all the time. Forget her. She is not worth your time anyway.
I know it can be hard and painful but it’s going to be worth it. There are millions of girls out there just waiting to get approached by the badass that is in you.
She will probably hit you up someday when you don’t even think about her anymore because she wants a piece of that awesome dude that she all of a sudden starts to miss so damn much.
Let The People Pleasing Go
Let the urge to please everyone go. Stop saying yes to everyone and anything. Start saying no instead. It’s one of your most powerful weapons.
There is no need to please anyone. People aren’t going to stop liking you. In fact, it’s the other way around.
They are going to start respecting and liking you because now you actually are a person who respects themselves and has a sense of self-worth.
Your primary focus should be on pleasing you and not others. Only then can you truly start living.
Let Go Of Materialism
Let go of all that clutter you accumulated over the years. You know you don’t need most of the stuff you hold onto. Stop lying to yourself.
I know that you are because I was in the same position once. I lied to myself and hesitated even though I knew I would never use it anymore.
But we both know it’s bullshit. Most materialistic stuff is worthless. Start getting rid of all the shit. Sell it on eBay or Craigslist and make some money that you can actually use to better yourself and your life. Or give it away.
Either way, it will make your life a hell of a lot easier.
Let Go Of Bad Habits
Let go of the bad habits, that hinder your progress and keep you from achieving your goals and dreams.
Bad habits don’t do anything for you. They just keep you down. They destroy you and keep you from unleashing your true potential.
If you don’t let go of your bad habits, you will never know what amazing things you are capable of.
Let go of bad eating habits and sleeping habits. Simply replace all of your bad habits with good habits. This alone will transform your life and your success will skyrocket.
Let Go Of Your Addictions
Let go of the addictions that suck the life out of your body.
They may seem harmless. You might think: “How bad can it be? Everybody is doing it.”
But even these so called harmless addictions keep you from achieving your true potential.
You might not even realize that you have certain addictions like being addicted to news, surfing the internet, playing video games, checking social media, watching porn.
Or they might be more of the common addictions like alcohol or cigarettes.
Regardless of your addiction, let go and watch your life energy increase a thousand fold.
Let Go Of Your Shitty Job
Let go of that shitty job that makes you not want to wake up. Start concentrating on the thing that you truly want to do and work on building something great instead.
Do that one thing that you always wanted to do but were afraid of doing.
Maybe your friends, your family or your co-workers told you that it was a dumb idea. And you listened to them.
Realize that your fear of failure is holding you back. Pull yourself together, gather all your courage and do it.
That’s the only way to live. Otherwise you are wasting your precious energy and the unique gifts that you have.
Fuck security. Fuck what anyone else thinks. Let go of that need for safety and get to work. Real work.
Let Go Of Your Limiting Beliefs
Change your mindset. Your whole life you are living in fear. You think limited and adopt a mindset of scarcity.
Instead, you have to realize that you have everything in abundance. Even when it’s not the case right now. That’s the first step in making it your reality.
Feel like a person who lives in abundance. There is an unlimited amount of resources and possibilities on this planet. You just have to take notice.
So let go of your negative thoughts and limiting beliefs. You never know which of these thoughts becomes real.
If you currently are stuck in a negative situation, stop and ask yourself how you can learn and grow because of it.
Let Go Of Your Stupid Excuses
Did you waste the past years searching for stupid excuses instead of taking massive actions? Actions that had to be done but you didn’t want to do them because it was hard?
Just let go of those excuses and do it now! If you did it right away, you would have already achieved what you wanted. Instead, you chose to make excuses like a little bitch.
“Oh I don’t have money, I don’t look good enough yet, I am not worthy yet blah blah blah”
Fuck all that shit. We both know it’s just an excuse.
You don’t need money to start working on your business. You don’t need to look better, learn more techniques or hit the gym more often before you can speak to a girl.
No, you get money by working on your business. You get more girls by actually talking to girls. If you just start doing it, you will gain experience and get better.
You can read all you want. You can search excuses. That’s not going to make it better. You still need to take action! That is the only way.
There is no better moment than now. There is no one right moment, where everything magically lines up and you get what you want. So start hustling now.
Let Go Of Your Fears and Worries
Let go of your deepest fears and worries. This is the time that you are going to conquer and overcome all of that shit.
It’s time to get yourself together and face your fears. The fears that keep you up at night. The fears that keep you from living the life you want.
Let go of your fears. How do you do that? You face them upfront. You have to do what you have been trying to avoid.
That is exactly what you have to do now.
When you face your fears, you realize they are not that big. They are an illusion. You ask yourself why you have been avoiding your fear all the time.
You ask yourself, what else you have been avoiding and start doing that shit. All of a sudden, your whole life transforms. A whole new realm of possibilities opens up.
Let Go Of Your Comfort Zone
Why? Why the fuck would anyone want to give up their comfort zone? After all, it’s so familiar, safe, comfortable … boring, average and limited.
Life only really starts when you let go of your comfort zone. You will quickly see that it was stupid to hide in your comfort zone and that there is nothing you have to worry about.
You actually get addicted to it, that feeling of growth. It makes your heart beat. It gives you energy and purpose.
Do it now. Do at least one thing every day to get out of your comfort zone. It may be talking to a stranger or something as simple as a cold shower.
Come back later and tell us how your life has changed.
Let Go Of The Past
You can not change the past. You can not undo your mistakes. Forgive yourself first and then others.
Let go of that grudge you hold deep inside of you. It’s eating you alive.
Stop letting the past define your present. Stop living in the past. Wake up. Live in the present moment. Live in your body!
Free your mind. Let go of all that emotional baggage you are carrying around with yourself all the time. No more feelings of guilt. No more regrets.
Instead of thinking “What if …” think about how you can learn out of your past mistakes.
You Are Not What You Are Letting Go
Don’t be afraid to lose something. It may be hard to let go of some of these things. But in the end, your life is going to improve in ways you can not even imagine.
You won’t look back. Once you start letting go, you start to feel free.
You will start to see a lot of new possibilities. You will have new relationships, new successes and a newfound happiness and courage to do the thing you actually want to do.
Letting go gives you the chance to live in the moment and make a new start. It brings you closer to your real self.
You are not what you have been holding onto. You are not these things, thoughts, fears or the failures of your past.
Realize that you are something entirely different. You are you and you are on your way to becoming the best version of yourself that the world has ever seen.